I’m single.
I’m dating.
I’m engaged.
I’m married.
I’m separated.
I’m divorced.
Life isn’t “cookie-cutter” for everyone and relationships are not easy. Healthy relationships are still hard, but are also a blessing and great joy!
Whatever your status, some will celebrate you, support you and stand with you in your decisions and be genuinely happy for you. These people are gold in your life!
Unfortunately, some “Judgement” type people will criticize, mock, gossip you when your single and some will even wrongly judge you when you’re in a relationship and when you’re not.
Sadly too, some of these people are acquaintances only, will try to get in your business by gathering information and spying on you to see what juicy tidbits they can spread around with their own interpretation.
Some will pop on your live-streams, not because they care about supporting you, but they just want to “check in” on what you are doing with no intent to deepen a relationship with you. “Lookee -Loos” 👀…
Some scroll through your personal profile posts and screenshot what they think is “juicy news” to shoot out to their friends who either don’t know you or who barely know you…saying “hey check this out!” 🤦♀️…really? Get a life! (Yep, have had this happen to me, and I do find out…truth always surfaces!)
Okay… so yes, these types of people exist and your patience, endurance and personal process will be challenged.
It doesn’t matter. Don’t give them the time of day!
Your journey, your process is your responsibility and none of their business.
Guard your heart & stay healthy.
How?
🔑 Forgive them.
🔑 Grive the losses.
🔑 Stay focused.
🔑 Be Life! Be integrity. Hold on to your core values and mission.
🔑 Don’t isolate – surround yourself with those that celebrate you and wise counsel & community
🔑 Get education, help and healing in areas you need
🔑 Dont let anyone or anything rush your process… grieving and healing take time
🔑 Move forward one step at a time for the bigger picture!
It’s worth it!
Love ~ amor 💋 ❤️ ~ Claudia Santiago
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